"Part of being totally absorbed is not having any mental space for worrying about one's self. Letting go of concern for what others are thinking of you is freedom from self-consciousness".
Have you ever managed to achieve flow while practicing your sport? Do you think winning is an important enough reason to practice any sport or is the flow experience more important? I tend to incline towards flow. I suggest you take a look at this book. Your practice AND your performance will never be the same afterwards.
Flow in Sports
Spyridon Katsigiannis
Systema Russian Martial Art & Filipino Kali instructor, San Shou coach.
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